Tal: constrict & narrow -> sad -> depression -> vicious circle
       broaden & build      -> positive emotion (go through the motion)

窄化收緊 vs 擴展建立

 

Tal: People feel guilty about persuing their own happiness. Happiness is contagious. If I am happier, it's more possible to contribute to other people's happiness and wellbeing.
*追求自身的快樂並不等同於奪取他人的快樂(非大餅比例分配).自身獲得快樂更可能將這種快樂感染他人,成為一種貢獻.
  自私不等於不道德(前提有限,應該是鼓勵不要害怕追求自身的快樂,而非為了自己的快樂可以犧牲他人的權益)

 

Tal: Experience the vicissitude of life - the ups and downs.
*體驗人生的變遷,體認原為潮起潮落。

 

甘地Gandhi: Be the change you want to see in the world.
Tal: People do what you do, not what you say.
*以身作則

 

Tal: Beliefs as self-fulfilling prophecies. 信念即自我實現預言

 

佛曰: We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world.
*相由心生

 

Geothe: Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can and should be, and he shall become as he can and should be.
人是怎樣便怎樣對他,他便還是那樣的人.一個人能夠或應該怎樣便怎樣對他,他便會成為能夠怎樣或應當怎樣的人.

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